Hey whats up guys my names Emanuel short for eman just dropping by here on the forum, I've been reading the stuff on here for a good month and its pretty helpful. Also quick question; I've been dating this chick for about a month and I'm running out of things to talk about haha. Anyone mind throwing a few tips so I don't run out of things to talk about. (This is through texting though, irl I never run out of things to talk to her about)
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hey. (Introduction)
- Thread starter eman
- Start date
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Thanks guys really appreciate it. Now here's the thing I like this chick because she doesn't bore me. BUT ever since the incident where we got trashed at a get together her parents had her grounded for a month and I didn't get to see her for a month. So now their finally letting up and allowing her to go out a bit more so I HAD to resort to msn because they took her phone.