Hey whats up guys my names Emanuel short for eman just dropping by here on the forum, I've been reading the stuff on here for a good month and its pretty helpful. Also quick question; I've been dating this chick for about a month and I'm running out of things to talk about haha. Anyone mind throwing a few tips so I don't run out of things to talk about. (This is through texting though, irl I never run out of things to talk to her about)
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Hey. (Introduction)
- Thread starter eman
- Start date
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Thanks guys really appreciate it. Now here's the thing I like this chick because she doesn't bore me. BUT ever since the incident where we got trashed at a get together her parents had her grounded for a month and I didn't get to see her for a month. So now their finally letting up and allowing her to go out a bit more so I HAD to resort to msn because they took her phone.