"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Hey im Phoenix

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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ok here is my story - for anyone who gives a dalm (what im bored)

ok so i met a Girl at 15 on holiday 3 months later i moved to london from a wee toon in scotland - so ****ing scary.

anyway she was the alpha male of the relationship and i done what i was told - it ended really bad and i got left with a broken heart after 3.5 years of "true love"

i was actually sitting on the floor razor blaze in hand ready to end it when a friend called right at the moment i was going to do it (i have the balls and i really would have) anyway i decided i was going to pick myself up - so i went out a few times to meet more woman and just got laughed at and had no sucess at all.

i found myself saying stuff like - eerrmmm i i i well i kind of well i like you i i i suppose ermm well do you

ok so you get the drift - on top of that i was a computer dork with no looks atall - scruffy hair - lanky streak of piss.

so you know the regular looser.

anyway my friend read this book - what we call "THE BOOK" the game - he recommended it to me - i bought it and threw it to one side - eventually i decided to read it - i got through like 10 pages and decided **** this lets see what this is all about - so i went online and used my contacts online - i founf dynamicdatinglifestyle - and they were holding a free boot camp - so i thought hell what do i have to loose - so i went along the next weekend, up untill the bootcamp i downloaded as much info as i could - Neil strauses stuff mainly as he was the only guy i had heard of.

anyway went on the bootcamp and oh my god was it great - i met craze and timeforacatnap and the spotted potential - since then i have went from set to set getting better and better.

i joined the comunity on the 13th october 2006 - and i am now an instructor - i have been told i have awsolm game but i still feel like im an afc :)

i have experianced MLTRs and most of my friends are hot women.

i see guys coming on our bootcamps who have more game than i did ad they still think it isnt possible to get to my leval - well what i want to say to everyone is - with the right help and dedication anything is possible.

anyway that is me - but the best bit is - he he

TOTAL COST TO BECOME A PUA: £0

YES NOTHING - sucess comes with devotion and dedication you cant buy game :)

my tip: find the guys who want to help you not the ones who are helping therselfs.

love you all and thanks for keeping the game alive!!!

Phoenix.
 
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