"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey im Phoenix

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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ok here is my story - for anyone who gives a dalm (what im bored)

ok so i met a Girl at 15 on holiday 3 months later i moved to london from a wee toon in scotland - so ****ing scary.

anyway she was the alpha male of the relationship and i done what i was told - it ended really bad and i got left with a broken heart after 3.5 years of "true love"

i was actually sitting on the floor razor blaze in hand ready to end it when a friend called right at the moment i was going to do it (i have the balls and i really would have) anyway i decided i was going to pick myself up - so i went out a few times to meet more woman and just got laughed at and had no sucess at all.

i found myself saying stuff like - eerrmmm i i i well i kind of well i like you i i i suppose ermm well do you

ok so you get the drift - on top of that i was a computer dork with no looks atall - scruffy hair - lanky streak of piss.

so you know the regular looser.

anyway my friend read this book - what we call "THE BOOK" the game - he recommended it to me - i bought it and threw it to one side - eventually i decided to read it - i got through like 10 pages and decided **** this lets see what this is all about - so i went online and used my contacts online - i founf dynamicdatinglifestyle - and they were holding a free boot camp - so i thought hell what do i have to loose - so i went along the next weekend, up untill the bootcamp i downloaded as much info as i could - Neil strauses stuff mainly as he was the only guy i had heard of.

anyway went on the bootcamp and oh my god was it great - i met craze and timeforacatnap and the spotted potential - since then i have went from set to set getting better and better.

i joined the comunity on the 13th october 2006 - and i am now an instructor - i have been told i have awsolm game but i still feel like im an afc :)

i have experianced MLTRs and most of my friends are hot women.

i see guys coming on our bootcamps who have more game than i did ad they still think it isnt possible to get to my leval - well what i want to say to everyone is - with the right help and dedication anything is possible.

anyway that is me - but the best bit is - he he

TOTAL COST TO BECOME A PUA: £0

YES NOTHING - sucess comes with devotion and dedication you cant buy game :)

my tip: find the guys who want to help you not the ones who are helping therselfs.

love you all and thanks for keeping the game alive!!!

Phoenix.
 
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