"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Hey having problems with my Mind

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When i was younger i was usually not very forgetful, but people names i am starting to forget and also things people tell me. During some gym classes i find it hard to peform techniques right like something heel, toe and lift left arm in air or during boxing its combiantions when my trainer is taking me on pads. I don't know if this is because i have got older, lack of sleep (i get 8 hours), food i eat ( i eat a lot of food fruit, veggies, meat and eat everry 3 hours) or it may be due to exhaustion from training. i was wondering if any of u knew the problem or better yet some way to stop it.

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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You play a lot of sports or ever get hit in the head hard but thought it was nothing so you didn't go in to get checked out?

You could have an undiagnosed concussion.
 

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i spar in boxing and yes i do get hit in the head, hm jus to b on the safe side i guess i should check it out. i kinda feel light headed and when i was trying to study for some exams i couldn't get my head round it.
 

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btw i don't mean i forget my friends names or parents names lol, like some chick would tell me her name and i would totally forget it in like 5 seconds.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Good for you man.

The wrestler Bret Hart had around 7 concussions in his career with the last one ending it.

Then he had an accident while riding his bike and landed on his head which caused him to get a stroke.

He recovered a lot from the stroke but he mentioned in interviews how all the concussions he had made it so he had memory problems and emotional problems.

The memory problems I could understand but I was like damn when I heard they could give you emotional problems too but I guess it makes sense because your brain controls all that stuff and when it gets rattled with a concussion damn near anything can happen to ya.
 

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honestly it sounds pretty normal to me man.... you party alot? drinker/smoker?

I think you need to relax more probably.... Try meditating.. seriously it will clear your brain and make it operate better. And it will help you focus more. If your brain is always ticking away too much it will start getting cloudy and cluttered.. relax it and get back to a "natural" relaxed core.

And maybe exercise your brain in other ways... Read a book on memory by 'Tony Buzan'.. just the simple exercises he has you do MASSIVELY improves memory and brain power, work on mental puzzles, play chess... its a muscle that needs to be exercised and toned, otherwise it will become fat a flabby :)


but yeah, it doesnt sound serious to me. Wouldnt stress it. You're probably just growing up and going through a phase. But by all means get a medical check up if it will make you feel better.
 

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Read books and do iq tests.
Seriously, this is the BEST method of resting and rehab for your mind after concussion or blow to the head.
 

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Well guys i went to doctors and she said it is probablly not a concusion because i wud know if it was and symptoms were not to similar. Anyway she told me to go hospital to do a few check up tomorrow, jus in case. I think the cause cud b due to thinking about to many things at one time, but i will tell u how the hospital tests go and i will take the advice u have given me into consideration and ask the doctor on them. thanks.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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