"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey having problems with my Mind

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When i was younger i was usually not very forgetful, but people names i am starting to forget and also things people tell me. During some gym classes i find it hard to peform techniques right like something heel, toe and lift left arm in air or during boxing its combiantions when my trainer is taking me on pads. I don't know if this is because i have got older, lack of sleep (i get 8 hours), food i eat ( i eat a lot of food fruit, veggies, meat and eat everry 3 hours) or it may be due to exhaustion from training. i was wondering if any of u knew the problem or better yet some way to stop it.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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You play a lot of sports or ever get hit in the head hard but thought it was nothing so you didn't go in to get checked out?

You could have an undiagnosed concussion.
 

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i spar in boxing and yes i do get hit in the head, hm jus to b on the safe side i guess i should check it out. i kinda feel light headed and when i was trying to study for some exams i couldn't get my head round it.
 

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btw i don't mean i forget my friends names or parents names lol, like some chick would tell me her name and i would totally forget it in like 5 seconds.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Good for you man.

The wrestler Bret Hart had around 7 concussions in his career with the last one ending it.

Then he had an accident while riding his bike and landed on his head which caused him to get a stroke.

He recovered a lot from the stroke but he mentioned in interviews how all the concussions he had made it so he had memory problems and emotional problems.

The memory problems I could understand but I was like damn when I heard they could give you emotional problems too but I guess it makes sense because your brain controls all that stuff and when it gets rattled with a concussion damn near anything can happen to ya.
 

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honestly it sounds pretty normal to me man.... you party alot? drinker/smoker?

I think you need to relax more probably.... Try meditating.. seriously it will clear your brain and make it operate better. And it will help you focus more. If your brain is always ticking away too much it will start getting cloudy and cluttered.. relax it and get back to a "natural" relaxed core.

And maybe exercise your brain in other ways... Read a book on memory by 'Tony Buzan'.. just the simple exercises he has you do MASSIVELY improves memory and brain power, work on mental puzzles, play chess... its a muscle that needs to be exercised and toned, otherwise it will become fat a flabby :)


but yeah, it doesnt sound serious to me. Wouldnt stress it. You're probably just growing up and going through a phase. But by all means get a medical check up if it will make you feel better.
 

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Read books and do iq tests.
Seriously, this is the BEST method of resting and rehab for your mind after concussion or blow to the head.
 

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Well guys i went to doctors and she said it is probablly not a concusion because i wud know if it was and symptoms were not to similar. Anyway she told me to go hospital to do a few check up tomorrow, jus in case. I think the cause cud b due to thinking about to many things at one time, but i will tell u how the hospital tests go and i will take the advice u have given me into consideration and ask the doctor on them. thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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