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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hey guys, you might be interested in this - Discussion on incident Sexual Harassment
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What if it was your wife, gf, or little sister whose ass he was grabbing? You'd be furious, too.
I took a look at that thread and while what the coworker did if he did what she claimed, I assume touched her near her vagina (She never really says so maybe not) out of the blue then that was inappropiate. But when you read the thread really one on guy responded sensibily, the rest wre feminized men and militant women. You can sense the hatered in the last woman that kept posting. And now the girl in question is clearly out to ruin the coworkers reputation and have him fired.
Her supervisor is acting like this is serious and is going to run it through the HR chain. They haven't even gotten the guy's side of the story. There's a possibliity that it never happened or it didn't happen the way she said. Women can intentionally give off signals even if they're not interested. Anbd the most offensive thing of it all is, men are required to make the first move, but if he doesn't do just right to the woman's satisfaction then it's off with his head basically. I think the OP is in europe and english probably isn't her native language.
Her supervisor is acting like this is serious and is going to run it through the HR chain. They haven't even gotten the guy's side of the story. There's a possibliity that it never happened or it didn't happen the way she said. Women can intentionally give off signals even if they're not interested. Anbd the most offensive thing of it all is, men are required to make the first move, but if he doesn't do just right to the woman's satisfaction then it's off with his head basically. I think the OP is in europe and english probably isn't her native language.
I skimmed most of the thread, including her initial post, and I have yet to see where she told him that she doesn't want to be touched by him anymore. Even after the fact when he came up to her the next day!!! Folks that's how sexual harassment eventually works; you make it clear you don't want certain actions to happen, and if they continue then you have sexual harassment.
For all he knows, she gave him the signal to do that. I'm sure that'll be his opinion. She will disagree. Third parties will never know for sure.
For all he knows, she gave him the signal to do that. I'm sure that'll be his opinion. She will disagree. Third parties will never know for sure.
wootapotky
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Talk about over reaction about this type of stuff. I've been grabbed before by girls I didn't like and reading some of the stuff from the sexual harrassment website that was linked it's saying stuff like "Don't blame yourself, you are a victim even if you think you weren't, it's typical to numb your emotions, blah blah."
All from being grabbed in your crotch, breasts, ass? What the f.ck? This type of thinking is way overreacting. Sure you don't want to be grabbed by everyone, but the level of reaction is ridiculous.
All from being grabbed in your crotch, breasts, ass? What the f.ck? This type of thinking is way overreacting. Sure you don't want to be grabbed by everyone, but the level of reaction is ridiculous.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
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tj
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That is why they call it pig sticking my friend
Don't ever, ever trust a woman at work any in any situation. They micromanage, gossip, bully and *****e their way at every turn.
The only way to survive is to stay very, busy, laugh and nod like you are one of those horses in New York city.
Don't ever, ever trust a woman at work any in any situation. They micromanage, gossip, bully and *****e their way at every turn.
The only way to survive is to stay very, busy, laugh and nod like you are one of those horses in New York city.
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Just let that thread serve you as a lesson to not even Be Alone with a woman at work, At ANY time!