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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Hey guys, you might be interested in this - Discussion on incident Sexual Harassment
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
What if it was your wife, gf, or little sister whose ass he was grabbing? You'd be furious, too.
I took a look at that thread and while what the coworker did if he did what she claimed, I assume touched her near her vagina (She never really says so maybe not) out of the blue then that was inappropiate. But when you read the thread really one on guy responded sensibily, the rest wre feminized men and militant women. You can sense the hatered in the last woman that kept posting. And now the girl in question is clearly out to ruin the coworkers reputation and have him fired.
Her supervisor is acting like this is serious and is going to run it through the HR chain. They haven't even gotten the guy's side of the story. There's a possibliity that it never happened or it didn't happen the way she said. Women can intentionally give off signals even if they're not interested. Anbd the most offensive thing of it all is, men are required to make the first move, but if he doesn't do just right to the woman's satisfaction then it's off with his head basically. I think the OP is in europe and english probably isn't her native language.
Her supervisor is acting like this is serious and is going to run it through the HR chain. They haven't even gotten the guy's side of the story. There's a possibliity that it never happened or it didn't happen the way she said. Women can intentionally give off signals even if they're not interested. Anbd the most offensive thing of it all is, men are required to make the first move, but if he doesn't do just right to the woman's satisfaction then it's off with his head basically. I think the OP is in europe and english probably isn't her native language.
I skimmed most of the thread, including her initial post, and I have yet to see where she told him that she doesn't want to be touched by him anymore. Even after the fact when he came up to her the next day!!! Folks that's how sexual harassment eventually works; you make it clear you don't want certain actions to happen, and if they continue then you have sexual harassment.
For all he knows, she gave him the signal to do that. I'm sure that'll be his opinion. She will disagree. Third parties will never know for sure.
For all he knows, she gave him the signal to do that. I'm sure that'll be his opinion. She will disagree. Third parties will never know for sure.
wootapotky
Senior Don Juan
Talk about over reaction about this type of stuff. I've been grabbed before by girls I didn't like and reading some of the stuff from the sexual harrassment website that was linked it's saying stuff like "Don't blame yourself, you are a victim even if you think you weren't, it's typical to numb your emotions, blah blah."
All from being grabbed in your crotch, breasts, ass? What the f.ck? This type of thinking is way overreacting. Sure you don't want to be grabbed by everyone, but the level of reaction is ridiculous.
All from being grabbed in your crotch, breasts, ass? What the f.ck? This type of thinking is way overreacting. Sure you don't want to be grabbed by everyone, but the level of reaction is ridiculous.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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tj
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That is why they call it pig sticking my friend
Don't ever, ever trust a woman at work any in any situation. They micromanage, gossip, bully and *****e their way at every turn.
The only way to survive is to stay very, busy, laugh and nod like you are one of those horses in New York city.
Don't ever, ever trust a woman at work any in any situation. They micromanage, gossip, bully and *****e their way at every turn.
The only way to survive is to stay very, busy, laugh and nod like you are one of those horses in New York city.
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Just let that thread serve you as a lesson to not even Be Alone with a woman at work, At ANY time!