"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Hey guys which shoes?

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ChapStick

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Two questions..

How old are you? What do you plan on wearing them with?

To be honest, both don't appeal to me at all..
 

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im 22. Plan on wearing them with cargos, perhaps jeans. I think its a different look, relaxed and cool.
 

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Fair enough.. But why not go for something better than Dockers? I mean, they kinda scream "old man" shoes to me.. Hey man, send me a PM and I'll give you some links to some sites that have great fashion advice, and some ideas on fashion.. My site is still under construction, but I can point you elsewhere.. :)
 

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ChapStick said:
Fair enough.. But why not go for something better than Dockers? I mean, they kinda scream "old man" shoes to me.. Hey man, send me a PM and I'll give you some links to some sites that have great fashion advice, and some ideas on fashion.. My site is still under construction, but I can point you elsewhere.. :)
I think you should post them here... Cause I would like to see them too, and I bet other people would too.

And great idea with your site... Seriously, it's hard to find a fashion site for HS guys. The only fashion sites I can find for men are for 25-40 year olds or those guys who dress to attract ****.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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nyama1234 said:
I think you should post them here... Cause I would like to see them too, and I bet other people would too.

And great idea with your site... Seriously, it's hard to find a fashion site for HS guys. The only fashion sites I can find for men are for 25-40 year olds or those guys who dress to attract ****.
Sure thing!

http://www.zappos.com - Look through the shoes there. They are probably my favorite place to get shoes from online.

http://www.honestforum.com - Has a lot of threads on what shoes look good with certain denim styles...

http://www.gq.com - Go to the forum section. Eh.. It's alright, but I don't like the fact that it seems to be fashion for the old...

http://www.styleforum.net - Also like GQ in the fact that most of the styles seem to be geared towards older people, but I also don't like the fact that a lot of the members are really stubborn and seem really closed minded to new ideas.. It really surprises me what a lot of the people on that site consider, "fashion" to be. *shivers*

That should get you started... and of course, there is my site, which I am still working on (haven't had a ton of time since I work, so I can actually afford to buy clothes). - which is a site that is targeted to the college age individual that is interested in fashion. Haha, I wanted something functional and practical for my age group! Not like a car magazine with exotic cars that you just look at and can't afford.
 
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