"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey guys which shoes?

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Two questions..

How old are you? What do you plan on wearing them with?

To be honest, both don't appeal to me at all..
 

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im 22. Plan on wearing them with cargos, perhaps jeans. I think its a different look, relaxed and cool.
 

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Fair enough.. But why not go for something better than Dockers? I mean, they kinda scream "old man" shoes to me.. Hey man, send me a PM and I'll give you some links to some sites that have great fashion advice, and some ideas on fashion.. My site is still under construction, but I can point you elsewhere.. :)
 

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ChapStick said:
Fair enough.. But why not go for something better than Dockers? I mean, they kinda scream "old man" shoes to me.. Hey man, send me a PM and I'll give you some links to some sites that have great fashion advice, and some ideas on fashion.. My site is still under construction, but I can point you elsewhere.. :)
I think you should post them here... Cause I would like to see them too, and I bet other people would too.

And great idea with your site... Seriously, it's hard to find a fashion site for HS guys. The only fashion sites I can find for men are for 25-40 year olds or those guys who dress to attract ****.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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nyama1234 said:
I think you should post them here... Cause I would like to see them too, and I bet other people would too.

And great idea with your site... Seriously, it's hard to find a fashion site for HS guys. The only fashion sites I can find for men are for 25-40 year olds or those guys who dress to attract ****.
Sure thing!

http://www.zappos.com - Look through the shoes there. They are probably my favorite place to get shoes from online.

http://www.honestforum.com - Has a lot of threads on what shoes look good with certain denim styles...

http://www.gq.com - Go to the forum section. Eh.. It's alright, but I don't like the fact that it seems to be fashion for the old...

http://www.styleforum.net - Also like GQ in the fact that most of the styles seem to be geared towards older people, but I also don't like the fact that a lot of the members are really stubborn and seem really closed minded to new ideas.. It really surprises me what a lot of the people on that site consider, "fashion" to be. *shivers*

That should get you started... and of course, there is my site, which I am still working on (haven't had a ton of time since I work, so I can actually afford to buy clothes). - which is a site that is targeted to the college age individual that is interested in fashion. Haha, I wanted something functional and practical for my age group! Not like a car magazine with exotic cars that you just look at and can't afford.
 
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