rgeere
Master Don Juan
Just stopping by .... I do not think I have been here since about the year 2004 or maybe sometime in 2005, but I use to post a heck of alot. Not sure if anyone remembers me. How's life for everyone?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hey guys ... Long time no see ...
- Thread starter rgeere
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Woah! I just realized my post count got zapped ... was there some sort of forum pruneing? I had somewhere around a 4000 or 5000 post count!
BuildingSomethingBig
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This place is basically full of trolls. You shouldn't bother with it anymore. Ignore the following: Vulpine, bagbro, wyldfire, last man standing, skip 2 lou. All trolls.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
wyldfire? I think I remember her ... she was some aggressive women who had an obsession with giving men advice and actually managed to get a few posts into the DJBible ... I got into an argument with her once over something rediculous and she flammed me to hell for 24 hours straight. Lol ... good times.
hey remember this thread? http://www.sosuave.net/forum/showthread.php?t=75280&highlight=picture
I hope you changed your dirtbag look. Post a new picture!
I hope you changed your dirtbag look. Post a new picture!
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
rgeere
Master Don Juan
Woah! Those pics are atleast over 2 years now. I forgot I posted those ...
You should see the wusification going on around here as pertains to wyldfire. There are lots of guys here who hang on her every word.rgeere said:wyldfire? I think I remember her ... she was some aggressive women who had an obsession with giving men advice and actually managed to get a few posts into the DJBible ... I got into an argument with her once over something rediculous and she flammed me to hell for 24 hours straight. Lol ... good times.
You guys (and you know who you are) have got to eventually understand that wf does NOT accurately represent her gender. Nor do the other couple of females who pollute this board. Why would anyone see a female who hangs out on a forum like this as representative of the female population at large?
Painfully, PAINFULLY obvious to many of us, I know, but it has to be pointed out to the ones who just don't get this concept.
Sun Tzu