rgeere
Master Don Juan
Just stopping by .... I do not think I have been here since about the year 2004 or maybe sometime in 2005, but I use to post a heck of alot. Not sure if anyone remembers me. How's life for everyone?
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You should see the wusification going on around here as pertains to wyldfire. There are lots of guys here who hang on her every word.rgeere said:wyldfire? I think I remember her ... she was some aggressive women who had an obsession with giving men advice and actually managed to get a few posts into the DJBible ... I got into an argument with her once over something rediculous and she flammed me to hell for 24 hours straight. Lol ... good times.