"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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hey guys. its been a while. help me out.

DJ Alejandro

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how are you people? its been a while since ive posted here and i think my skills aren't as sharp anymore compared to before. but im working on it. dont worry.

guys, here it is.

there's this girl that i met. to cut things short, my close friends are really into her but so far, she hasn't really been out with them.

in particular is a friend of mine. he's always sending her SMS and then inviting her out to Mcdonalds. she agrees but always says "next time" and then a few other next-times.

i came up and in short, i had her wanting to buy me breakfast. that's it. and so far, im the only guy she's been "out" with.

the date was ok. not exactly dj-quality. i was a bit anxious since nah.. too many reasons. but either way, i sucked but managed to get it out in the end. i had her smiling a lot and yes, it could have been a lot better but it was ok.

you know what, im just thinking. its just a date. maybe a friendly date.

where im driving at is that my other friends have been telling me that from what they've seen, i should slow down a bit cuz she might be expecting a relationship from me. its too early to say but i guess its a warning. should i take it into heart? i just wanna get close to her. she's a nice gal and could also improve my social proof. that's what i want.

you guys should also know that there's a fukking bimale after me who's her classmate and another girl who's digging me.. also her classmate. i have a girlfriend and i dont plan on cheating with "breakfast girl". but if i didn't have a girlfriend, she might be a candidate.

thoughts? just anything. i just had to let it out. thanks, guys.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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wow.

been helping out people here a lot. now its my turn. thanks a lot guys. your not replying really helps a lot.
 

DJ Alejandro

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so much for wingmen.
 

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1) don't listen to your "buddies" - you know they like her.

2) You don't want to cheat - yet you've been on a date with her. You'd better start to figure out what you want here.

3) You've got a GF - your happy with (I assume) - so why the nervousness around this girl.

4) LJBF her.
 
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