"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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hey guys. its been a while. help me out.

DJ Alejandro

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how are you people? its been a while since ive posted here and i think my skills aren't as sharp anymore compared to before. but im working on it. dont worry.

guys, here it is.

there's this girl that i met. to cut things short, my close friends are really into her but so far, she hasn't really been out with them.

in particular is a friend of mine. he's always sending her SMS and then inviting her out to Mcdonalds. she agrees but always says "next time" and then a few other next-times.

i came up and in short, i had her wanting to buy me breakfast. that's it. and so far, im the only guy she's been "out" with.

the date was ok. not exactly dj-quality. i was a bit anxious since nah.. too many reasons. but either way, i sucked but managed to get it out in the end. i had her smiling a lot and yes, it could have been a lot better but it was ok.

you know what, im just thinking. its just a date. maybe a friendly date.

where im driving at is that my other friends have been telling me that from what they've seen, i should slow down a bit cuz she might be expecting a relationship from me. its too early to say but i guess its a warning. should i take it into heart? i just wanna get close to her. she's a nice gal and could also improve my social proof. that's what i want.

you guys should also know that there's a fukking bimale after me who's her classmate and another girl who's digging me.. also her classmate. i have a girlfriend and i dont plan on cheating with "breakfast girl". but if i didn't have a girlfriend, she might be a candidate.

thoughts? just anything. i just had to let it out. thanks, guys.
 

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wow.

been helping out people here a lot. now its my turn. thanks a lot guys. your not replying really helps a lot.
 

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so much for wingmen.
 

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1) don't listen to your "buddies" - you know they like her.

2) You don't want to cheat - yet you've been on a date with her. You'd better start to figure out what you want here.

3) You've got a GF - your happy with (I assume) - so why the nervousness around this girl.

4) LJBF her.
 
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