"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey Guys, I'm kinda nervous to go to a new party tonight, can you help me out?

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Basically I might hang out with my friend tonight and we're going to a party where basically I won't know anyone there. I'm kinda nervous about it but at the same time, I'd imagine that this is a good chance for me to become more social (since I'm usually shy about meeting new people and I need to get out of my shell in time for the new school year so I can finally start getting some ass) and, well, meet new people. The problem is, I need some help as to how to meet new people. I'm sure my friend will introduce me, but after I say my name, where i go to school (I'm almost 17 btw), and shyt, what else is there? What else can I say to not be the awkward guy who just says hi and nothing else? Is there a thread that can help people out at parties as to what to do if you hardly know anyone there?

Thanks for your advice guys, I really appriciate it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Your basically saying you don't have any social skills at all. So the long term solution is to improve your social skills which is done by going out and talking to people you don't know. Your short term solution for tonight is going there, getting drunk and having fun and bringing other people into it.
 
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EFFORT said:
Your basically saying you don't have any social skills at all. So the long term solution is to improve your social skills which is done by going out and talking to people you don't know. Your short term solution for tonight is going there, getting drunk and having fun and bringing other people into it.
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Well I have social skills, just not when it comes to complete strangers, and to be honest I sort of exaggerated my post a little bit so I'd hopefully get a more indepth responce for tips and such. I'm not some socially inept kid, but at the same time I'm shy around new people.
 
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