"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hey guys, I'm in a coffee shop across from 3

Br' Brian

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jailbaits. They're all giving me looks even though I'm almost thrice their age. What should I do now? I'm trying to ignore them and it's making it worse. She won't stop looking at me. This is sick. All they're doing is talking (gossiping) about people they hate (one of them looks like drew barrymore - all 3 are budding movie starlets however). They are probably 14 or 15 I'd guess. I have instant prizability with my stop-in-tracks good looks; therefore, they won't get up and leave. What to do...I think I'm gonna move. Thanks.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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jailbait is a joke...steer clear...not only are they children but you're not gonna get anywhere even if they weren't since there's 3 of them...I'm 25 and personally find chicks 21 and under to be immature as hell still...met a few 20 year olds that were cool. First 6 months I don't deal w/21 year old chicks since they're too buzy boozing unless you just want the quick p00n
 

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Br' Brian said:
jailbaits. They're all giving me looks even though I'm almost thrice their age. What should I do now? I'm trying to ignore them and it's making it worse. She won't stop looking at me. This is sick. All they're doing is talking (gossiping) about people they hate (one of them looks like drew barrymore - all 3 are budding movie starlets however). They are probably 14 or 15 I'd guess. I have instant prizability with my stop-in-tracks good looks; therefore, they won't get up and leave. What to do...I think I'm gonna move. Thanks.
lol... this line got me.....instant prizability...like a golden Buddha?
 

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I'm almost thrice their age
well then since you "THRICE" there age you should KNOW better, then to get involve when young UNDER-AGE teenage girls.


She won't stop looking at me.
she is probably wondering why the f!ck this creepy old man keeps WATCHING us.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I agree. That was creepy. I have in the past year been punched in the arm, flirted with, by two 19 and 20 year old gals, and they were kind of a turn-off because of their naivete, and it was soo easy to neg them, turn my back on them whatever because I Really wasn't attracted on a personality level, but I could imagine that the sex would kind of rock and they would kind of Owe me for it (for making them into a real woman for having been with a real man). One I see every week now but in two weeks I'll never see her again, but I've had my hand on her ass a couple of times (first time accidentally) and she was without-a-doubt aroused and still is aroused/nervous everytime she sees me (really makes her look goofy, I actually feel sorry for her). Her name is Zoe. I'm 31 years old so I guess thrice was an exageration and I definately RUN from such situations and it's really not fair because an older woman pursued by a younger guy would probably not be as toublesome to the older woman (to where she has to change where she goes and what she does).

Btw, this form is a godsend for me. I just found this ****er. I've studied mostly Swinggcat in depth. The others are new to me but I'm learning.
 
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