"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Hey guys, I'm getting a new house and need to decorate. How would you decorate?

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Simple question (has nothing to do with women). I'm getting a brand new house and I need to decorate. Going for living in a apartment with a roommate to living in a townhouse so I don't have a lot of stuff. All I really have is a couch (a nice lazyboy couch, though not in leather, couldn't afford that at the time), bed, dresser, big screen tv. I suck at decorating too, so give me some ideas. What would you do if you were me?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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I would not decorate at all lol.

Four cinder blocks and a piece of plywood make a coffee table...done! :D
 

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Plinco said:
I would not decorate at all lol.

Four cinder blocks and a piece of plywood make a coffee table...done! :D
lol, guess we have different ideas of style. Too be honest I'd like to look like I'm not a college student. That's why I want to put some effort into the house I'll be living in. Just don't have any idea where to start. I know I will be buying a lot of my furniture at ikea, both because it's cheaper and I like the style.
 

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I'd go to antique stores and the like and find some original wood tables, but I'm a country boy.

Keep it manly-this newage stuff is pretty gay.
 

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Julius_Seizeher said:
I'd go to antique stores and the like and find some original wood tables, but I'm a country boy.

Keep it manly-this newage stuff is pretty gay.
new age? And yeah, I'm gonna try and keep it manly. I will be having a female relative live with me so gonna do my best to keep her from making it into a sissy house.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Get up early on a Saturday and go look for yard sales in a wealthy neighborhood. Rich people have nice stuff, and they usually just want to get rid of it.
 

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Dude, let a woman do it for you. They love doing those types of things. Trust me!
 

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Best way to decorate is to bring a girl to help you out. They do a good job in decorating then after the house is finished decorating you can bang her.
 
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