Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Flyguy3663

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I'm finding this site in general to be getting very repetitive and the vibe is just bad. I have learned like so much in this forum. If it weren't for a few of you like DIESEL and AIKEN I would still be a scrawny basterd doin 200 push-ups a day and actually losing muscle lol.

Since I started posting here in about April I went from 170 or so up to 195 where I'm at now. I am slimming down a little bit but you guys and your advice has helped me gain A LOT of muscle. I just don't feel I am learning anything new and a lot of the novice lifters here come off as very condescending and arrogant.

So basically this is my last post. I am joining Navy pretty soon. hopefully early next year. I don't think I have learned anything new on this site in probably 2 or 3 months.

I seriously appreciate all you guys who lift regularly and post about it. You guys motivate me. Thanks for everything.

Peace and Good luck to all of you
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Aiken_Drum

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Thanks for props (sp???) man. I learned most of the stuff from Diesel, Viroid and etc, so thank them.
Keep us posted about how you went in the navy and good luck there!
Do you know if you can get 6 meals a day there? Otherwise, those ****ers are gonna make you lose a lot of muscle with all the bag-carring action going around there
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Anyway, again, good luck and see you some day!
 

xyzzy

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Good Luck Flyguy. I appreciated the info you posted while you were here.

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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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