"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Hey Guys I am out.. Last post

Flyguy3663

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I'm finding this site in general to be getting very repetitive and the vibe is just bad. I have learned like so much in this forum. If it weren't for a few of you like DIESEL and AIKEN I would still be a scrawny basterd doin 200 push-ups a day and actually losing muscle lol.

Since I started posting here in about April I went from 170 or so up to 195 where I'm at now. I am slimming down a little bit but you guys and your advice has helped me gain A LOT of muscle. I just don't feel I am learning anything new and a lot of the novice lifters here come off as very condescending and arrogant.

So basically this is my last post. I am joining Navy pretty soon. hopefully early next year. I don't think I have learned anything new on this site in probably 2 or 3 months.

I seriously appreciate all you guys who lift regularly and post about it. You guys motivate me. Thanks for everything.

Peace and Good luck to all of you
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Aiken_Drum

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Thanks for props (sp???) man. I learned most of the stuff from Diesel, Viroid and etc, so thank them.
Keep us posted about how you went in the navy and good luck there!
Do you know if you can get 6 meals a day there? Otherwise, those ****ers are gonna make you lose a lot of muscle with all the bag-carring action going around there
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Anyway, again, good luck and see you some day!
 

xyzzy

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Good Luck Flyguy. I appreciated the info you posted while you were here.

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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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