Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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hey guys ,got any advice on starting over

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badgm's57

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well its been awhile since ive been on this site.

but anyway i was just wondering how most ofyou guys, keep your positive attitude without wories jumping in the way.to keep your confidence from getting lost at times[other than getting drunk].

because i was just moved to antoher area ,so i realize it's time for new friends,new dates,new job, new confidence.in other words starting over on a blank sheet of paper.to negtive aspects from eating away at my self esteem ,and i know it will show around other girls,guys,bosses,and whoever else im around,and loose out on everything.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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D_Master

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I would think picking up women would be the easiest thing in your list.

Personally I would focus on getting a job and meeting some friends to hang with first, but thats just me. Meeting girls will probly come easier once those things are in place.
 
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Tha Realnezz

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I just keep going at it,man.

One day i'm rejected by a girl that was all over me the day before that and the next day i'll bounce back with 2 numbers and a date for the weekend.

And even then sometimes it doesn't work out (girl re-schedules,etc)but I just keep going I refuse to focus on one woman.

For every rejection I get it back twice...Women want to break men down thinking this will "humble him and open him up" :cry: but all this does in confuse and frustate us..:cuss:

..yet eventually we move on...:up:
 
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