"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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hey guys ,got any advice on starting over

badgm's57

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well its been awhile since ive been on this site.

but anyway i was just wondering how most ofyou guys, keep your positive attitude without wories jumping in the way.to keep your confidence from getting lost at times[other than getting drunk].

because i was just moved to antoher area ,so i realize it's time for new friends,new dates,new job, new confidence.in other words starting over on a blank sheet of paper.to negtive aspects from eating away at my self esteem ,and i know it will show around other girls,guys,bosses,and whoever else im around,and loose out on everything.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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D_Master

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I would think picking up women would be the easiest thing in your list.

Personally I would focus on getting a job and meeting some friends to hang with first, but thats just me. Meeting girls will probly come easier once those things are in place.
 

Tha Realnezz

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I just keep going at it,man.

One day i'm rejected by a girl that was all over me the day before that and the next day i'll bounce back with 2 numbers and a date for the weekend.

And even then sometimes it doesn't work out (girl re-schedules,etc)but I just keep going I refuse to focus on one woman.

For every rejection I get it back twice...Women want to break men down thinking this will "humble him and open him up" :cry: but all this does in confuse and frustate us..:cuss:

..yet eventually we move on...:up:
 
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