hey guys ,got any advice on starting over

[badgm's57]

well its been awhile since ive been on this site.

but anyway i was just wondering how most ofyou guys, keep your positive attitude without wories jumping in the way.to keep your confidence from getting lost at times[other than getting drunk].

because i was just moved to antoher area ,so i realize it's time for new friends,new dates,new job, new confidence.in other words starting over on a blank sheet of paper.to negtive aspects from eating away at my self esteem ,and i know it will show around other girls,guys,bosses,and whoever else im around,and loose out on everything.

 

[D_Master]

I would think picking up women would be the easiest thing in your list.

Personally I would focus on getting a job and meeting some friends to hang with first, but thats just me. Meeting girls will probly come easier once those things are in place.

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I just keep going at it,man.

One day i'm rejected by a girl that was all over me the day before that and the next day i'll bounce back with 2 numbers and a date for the weekend.

And even then sometimes it doesn't work out (girl re-schedules,etc)but I just keep going I refuse to focus on one woman.

For every rejection I get it back twice...Women want to break men down thinking this will "humble him and open him up" but all this does in confuse and frustate us..:cuss:

..yet eventually we move on...