Paper Crane
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I'm a 25 yr old single dude. Just looking to up my skills with women and get laid. I've been casually dating on and off between relationships and just recently made a Tinder account. I feel like my profile is pretty good so I hope it goes well. I'm just getting back into dating after a while because I was focusing on myself. I think most guys should spend time focusing on themselves because you get a lot more accomplished that way.
I've read a lot of good books on women and have been studying game since my early teens. I learned alot even through my experiences with women and so here I present a list of tips:
The biggest thing I learned about women is this: You should always have the thought that if a girl is not being pleasant to you in any way, that you can find another girl and shouldn't hesitate to move on. Of course, don't just feel defeated if you didn't make any moves. I noticed a lot of people tend to be super friendly with girls and that's a bigger turn off to a girl than a guy sending a **** pic.
Also, if a girl is into you, she'll make it clear. There's no playing around or acting like she's hard to get.. Any games a girl plays is a sign of issues or insecurity. Just because she is talking to you does not mean she likes you. Girls love attention and need it. They'll go to any random guy on a day they're bored and make that clueless dude have thoughts like "dude what if she likes me? man maybe i missed out on some signs".. not knowing you're just there to give her attention
Another thing is this: Guys tend to dislike women but not even realize it. They cringe at what women do, how women live. It's almost like an envy or hate of women but then they expect to get women. Any man who is focused on what women does and gets jealous of them is someone who is probably sexually frustrated.
Lastly, if you're a guy and you pay alot of attention to women, you are doing the opposite of what you need to be doing. Women don't go for guys who are constantly paying attention to them. They go for guys who got alot going on.
The #1 thing to remember is this: Most Women only go for guys who are BETTER than them. This means, financially, socially, size wise (this is #1, if she's like 5'9, she wants a guy 6'0 or bigger 90% of the time), more experienced sexually, more knowledgeable, more cultured, more well traveled.
"THESE DAYS"
-Women these days don't look for a guy just for him being a good guy whos attractive with a nice job. They look at their boyfriends as status symbols.
-IF they are looking for a sexual partner, they are going for the best of the best, tall, handsome, abs, nice eyes, tattoos. Just like us guys if we wanted to screw something, we'd want to screw a pornstar looking chick
-If you have less followers than her, less likes, best not even show your social media
-meet a girl organically is still the best way to meet women, this means work, school, through friends, social gatherings, etc. Your chances of finding a normal girl this way is best.
-Go for a girl in your league. Out of your league is a hard bargain in these superficial times unless you have some thing that can win them over. Usually requires omething like immense confidence, good financial status, extremely funny, or really good in bed. or you're something they can brag about, like a national level champion at some sport
-You have to be 100% cool with sex. You have to be aware that women of all statuses, whether ugly or super hot are having sex, enjoying sex, and quite a lot more because it's all women think about, its all their magazines talk about, on social media, a huge percentage of what they're doing is "being sexy", so if you are not okay with the idea that a women may be more sexually experienced than you, stick to serious dating/relationships.
-Absolutely do your best not to hurt a womans feelings. Why? Because she can destroy you. Women are really vengeful. If they give up their prize to you, and you ruin it somehow, they will make sure you feel it. Some guys have been accused of rape, but others have had all their embarassing stuff put out there amongst their friends, women can and will sleep with your best friends and your best friend will never tell you. They can also play with your heart once they're over you and manipulate you to death. Why? It's the way the universe balances the fact that we can physically destroy any women with our brute strength, or intimidation.
I've read a lot of good books on women and have been studying game since my early teens. I learned alot even through my experiences with women and so here I present a list of tips:
The biggest thing I learned about women is this: You should always have the thought that if a girl is not being pleasant to you in any way, that you can find another girl and shouldn't hesitate to move on. Of course, don't just feel defeated if you didn't make any moves. I noticed a lot of people tend to be super friendly with girls and that's a bigger turn off to a girl than a guy sending a **** pic.
Also, if a girl is into you, she'll make it clear. There's no playing around or acting like she's hard to get.. Any games a girl plays is a sign of issues or insecurity. Just because she is talking to you does not mean she likes you. Girls love attention and need it. They'll go to any random guy on a day they're bored and make that clueless dude have thoughts like "dude what if she likes me? man maybe i missed out on some signs".. not knowing you're just there to give her attention
Another thing is this: Guys tend to dislike women but not even realize it. They cringe at what women do, how women live. It's almost like an envy or hate of women but then they expect to get women. Any man who is focused on what women does and gets jealous of them is someone who is probably sexually frustrated.
Lastly, if you're a guy and you pay alot of attention to women, you are doing the opposite of what you need to be doing. Women don't go for guys who are constantly paying attention to them. They go for guys who got alot going on.
The #1 thing to remember is this: Most Women only go for guys who are BETTER than them. This means, financially, socially, size wise (this is #1, if she's like 5'9, she wants a guy 6'0 or bigger 90% of the time), more experienced sexually, more knowledgeable, more cultured, more well traveled.
"THESE DAYS"
-Women these days don't look for a guy just for him being a good guy whos attractive with a nice job. They look at their boyfriends as status symbols.
-IF they are looking for a sexual partner, they are going for the best of the best, tall, handsome, abs, nice eyes, tattoos. Just like us guys if we wanted to screw something, we'd want to screw a pornstar looking chick
-If you have less followers than her, less likes, best not even show your social media
-meet a girl organically is still the best way to meet women, this means work, school, through friends, social gatherings, etc. Your chances of finding a normal girl this way is best.
-Go for a girl in your league. Out of your league is a hard bargain in these superficial times unless you have some thing that can win them over. Usually requires omething like immense confidence, good financial status, extremely funny, or really good in bed. or you're something they can brag about, like a national level champion at some sport
-You have to be 100% cool with sex. You have to be aware that women of all statuses, whether ugly or super hot are having sex, enjoying sex, and quite a lot more because it's all women think about, its all their magazines talk about, on social media, a huge percentage of what they're doing is "being sexy", so if you are not okay with the idea that a women may be more sexually experienced than you, stick to serious dating/relationships.
-Absolutely do your best not to hurt a womans feelings. Why? Because she can destroy you. Women are really vengeful. If they give up their prize to you, and you ruin it somehow, they will make sure you feel it. Some guys have been accused of rape, but others have had all their embarassing stuff put out there amongst their friends, women can and will sleep with your best friends and your best friend will never tell you. They can also play with your heart once they're over you and manipulate you to death. Why? It's the way the universe balances the fact that we can physically destroy any women with our brute strength, or intimidation.
