"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hey Bald Guys....

Genghis Juan

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Hi all,

I just shaved my head with a pair of clippers at the 000 setting and it looks pretty good on me. Maybe I will post my picture to see what you guys think. My face is a good shape so I think (not sure) that I wear it well. I have a good face too so I think its all good. I have olive colored skin, but its kind of light so I think I need a tan....I want to get pretty ripped so I can at least get a Vin Diesel-esque look.

My question is this:

To the bald/shaved head guys on this board, have you hooked up with HB9's consistantly or has your game suffered because of it?

I was trying to hook up with an HB9 on a few dates...she is a blonde bombshell giving me mixed signals, and Im starting to think that maybe its my head...but...I am also a very intermediate DJ with a game that is a work-in-progress....I know I have made some rookie mistakes with her...
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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allan976

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Hi Genghis,

I "shave" my head as well, using a zero clip, not a razor. I used to go to the barber every couple weeks, but I just found my hair (in my opinion) looked terrible after four or five days.
Now, I use clippers every two or three days.

In general, at least in pop culture or celebrity culture, there has been a definite trend towards shaving one's head or at least cutting one's hair very very closely: think Bruce Willis, Vin Diesel as you mentioned, The Rock, Stone Cold Steve Austin, Andre Agassi, Justin Timberlake, the list goes on and on. In short, the shaved head/extremely close cropped look is very cool at the moment. Sure, some guys like Sam Cassell look terrible with their head shaved, but then again he'd look frightening with just about any hair style he tried.

Women that I've dated recently frequently mention that they ("oooooh") love my hairstyle, caress my head, ask questions about how frequently I cut my hair and so on. The last lady I dated loved to stroke my head while we kissed and while we, well, you know.

If you have nice facial features (a normally sized and shaped head is a big plus), a closely cropped hair/shaved head will definitely bring them out.

In short, I have a hard time believing a short hair cut will put you at a disadvantage and am strongly inclined to believe the opposite: it's an asset.
 
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