"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey Allen, How about Fasting for the Holy Week?

Aztec

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Hey Allen, with too much insult-slinging around especially in the Anything Forum, I think we all need some kind of "fasting" around here. I'm thinking about 40 days without DJ Discussion Forum would do it.

In those forty days, DJs can calm down and reflect or plan their strategies, if you will, in picking up women.

This may sound redundant, but this is maybe the cause of why good members leave or just lurk around and not give any response to many of our topics that are going out of hand. I see veterans who contributed excellent ideas surfacing once in a while maybe when they see topics that is worth their time.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Hey... does anyone know how many days we have to wait until we call a gyrl after we get her phone number????..:rolleyes:

Oh and by the way...What is KINO?

The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't '
 

Aztec

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Originally posted by The Edge
Hey... does anyone know how many days we have to wait until we call a gyrl after we get her phone number????..:rolleyes:

Oh and by the way...What is KINO?

The Edge ' Some have it, and some don't '
That has nothing to do with my suggestions but anyway I usually wait 3-4 days after getting the phone number and definitely no follow up calls on weekend because I'm supposedly "busy."

Kino is the use of touch, usually minimally, in interaction with the chick.
 

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It was a joke Aztec. I hope you realized The Edge was just being himself: an a$$ :D.

All kidding aside I think it may actually be a good idea. Some people do need a break from this site. And hopefully it'll force more people to get out in the field and practice.

"If your rap is strong it can't go wrong."

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