Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Hey AFC, read the fundamentals.

oOh Nasty

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AFC = Average Frustrated Chump.

It's the millenial's version of "simp."

And this forum has quite a handful of active AFCs who seem to constantly rationalize why they should NOT take the advice of the members here who only want them to become better.

Please go through the fundamentals. They are still HIGHLY relevant today, probably even more relevant than ever. Read the BOOK OF POOK. Go read some old Roissy stuff. Read some Doc Love.

Then go back and reread your posts and find out why you are an ABSOLUTE REPELLANT to the women that you desire.

The dudes that I have in mind have the TOTAL WRONG MINDSET despite being here for years and having thousands more posts than myself already.

Those of us who reply to original threads and try to help the noobs do so with the intent to help them become HOLISTICALLY ATTRACTIVE to women. A lot of that starts with state of mind and the general understanding of how women actually operate and what they respond to despite what the masses of these women will try to tell everyone. Yet, a lot of the posts that these active AFCs make still scream Disney soul-mate, blue-pill, one-itis ****. Which lead me to believe that they probably haven't even gone through the basic fundamentals of what being a DJ is all about.

As the years have gone by, the OGs that try to help the newer members have become even milder in their posts. I guess the world is a little too sensitive these days so we're less blunt. But I remember when I was able to say **** like (and I'm paraphrasing myself) "the type of women you should go for are the ones that can make you blow a hole through a wall with your load."

I think we, as a forum, have become too nice to these noobs and thousands of posts and years later, they're all still the same AFCs asking how to attract ONE SPECIFIC WOMAN rather than how to increase their value and let multiple women of their type come to them. And then you have posters who still seem to not understand the concept of a masculine/dominant frame and are always asking questions regarding negotiating with women in some way, completely negating the idea of frame.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Clockwerk50

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The site is actually better than when I first joined. In 2024, I made a post calling out how it had turned into an incel circle-jerk forum. You can still read the responses from both old and new members, but the end result was that the mods and the community pushed a lot of those people out.

Incel Circlejerk | SoSuave Discussion Forum

I also agree that if someone is going to make a post asking for advice, the bare minimum requirement should be stating what material they’ve already read and their current physical stats, including gym progress.
 

FlexpertHamilton

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I don't peruse this forum too much anymore, can you give examples of what you're talking about?
 
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