"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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HETEROFLEXIBLE WOMEN-hot new trend

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In the mid 2000's Britney open mouthed kissed Madonna on live TV. In the summer of 2008 Katie Perry crooned "I kissed a girl.....and I liked it", and a surge of Heteroflexible females wanted to be in the spotlight. There are a few legitimate lesbians and bi-curious chics out there.

These wannabe popular females are a little insecure and crave attention from the opposite sex. A good percentage are willing to do all sorts of things in hopes to score points with men. They typically tongue kiss a member of the same sex for shock value....they just want to get a reaction from men watching. The thinking is "hey look at me, I can be adventurous".......focus your attention on me. It may also be used as a determent for un-wanted attention from men. Gals who do not want to be bothered by certain men, turns to her female friend, makes out in hopes this will truncate any hopes hooking up.

Keep in mind like most hot new trends it's thrilling at first but as time marches on this too will fizzle. Guys have always adored girl on girl action......long live girls gone wild video's. Women often seek validation from men and lets face it sex continues to sell.

When you encounter these "gotta be in da spot light chics" don't be too phased......you could opt for the old cliche` "hey its already been done" or just say "my turn". Enjoy the trend and remember to capture it on your cell-phone.

MJ
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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i am Katti Perry and I approve of this message


.........get off me COD......sheesh
 

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did I not mention all your points in the original posts (sex sells, attention seekers)

are u guys posting responses because your bored or hung over?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This issue needs to be addressed because I find such behavior by a woman as a lack of mental stability or self-control, something of which I would never consider marrying. So she struck out with me and my money when she stoops to such stupid ploys. Damnation, hell and all that great stuff will be upon her in mine eyes. I'd never kiss a guy to get another woman's attention.
 
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