speaking from my own experience. i’m naturally funny. i’ve heard it all my life. in high school and when i first started practicing pua, i leaned heavily on self amusement and busting girls balls all the time. because i considered it a strength. however, it wasn't until i started taking my appearance more seriously, that i really started getting the results i wanted.
"He's not handsome, but he's nice." Or "he's funny".
to me this sort of thing was always more of an ego boost. because i held “getting girls despite the fact that ur not their ideal type”, highly.
whatever you value the most, is what you will get more of. and less of what you don’t value as much.
when what you value above all else is game skills (jestermaxxing), that’s what you’ll get more of.
youll be proud of the girl you got thru all your game. how smoothly you approached her. how you managed to win her friends over. how much she laughed at all your jokes. your incredible text game. even to the girls you almost got but didn’t. because hey, that was still some pretty incredible text game after all. and the girl was laughing and having such a good time at the bar with you.
and ignore the fact the girls you end up with aren’t really that attractive to begin with. of course because this is your hobby, you’ll proudly share your accomplishments to anymore who is willing to listen (even to those who don’t give a sh1t lol). for that validation that your such a slayer. nobody could have pulled those girls, man! because nobody has as deep as an understanding of and practical application of game as you. so you feel good about yourself.
yet the girls you really want, remain out of reach for some reason. despite your said “amazing game”.
He's really hot and he's my type"
at some point. i stopped caring about game skills and just getting the girls that always alluded me. you know the type. the hot girl who doesn’t fvck guys outside of their social circle. the one that heavily vets guys and never goes home with strangers. because that’s what slvts do.
all along this is what i really valued. and my experience showed me that being mr funny man, rarely if ever yielded that outcome. compared to being a girls ideal type. which you randomly will be to some girls in spite of putting zero effort into your appearance. so i focused on taking the randomness out of that equation. by focusing my efforts into becoming a girls ideal type more often.
like i said in the first paragraph. i’m naturally a funny guy. but nowadays i save that for after i've already laid them. it serves as a nice surprise for girls who thought you’d just be a boring hot guy with no personality.
