When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by Jay Gatsby
Women are now upset that they're on the receiving end...
http://www.cnn.com/2004/SHOWBIZ/books/11/29/books.hes.not.into.you.ap/index.html
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
lmmfao... thats funny as shi*tOriginally posted by DJDamage
With that kinda logic we should come up with our own book for the DJ BIBLE, its called " STOP IT"
But I am scared to approach women in a bar - Answer: STOP IT!
Approach them!
I get angry and sad when I get rejected what should I do? ANSWER: STOP IT! Don't be Angry and Sad!
I have no life and my self esteem is pretty low - STOP IT! get a life and have a high self esteem!
So my conclusion is that everytime I have a problem I should just say STOP IT and go on with the program?????? ANSWER: YESSSSSSSSS!
Simple isn't it??????