Michele l'Arcangelo
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
He's Just Not That Into You - 10 Chick Flick Cliches You Won't Find In The Movie
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Apocalypse Now
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That was hilarious. I think I might consider seeing the movie now.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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You must really take yourself seriously... because no one here does, all your posts are usually negative.piranha45 said:
And, who cares if they didn't deny it's a chick flick? How is that "fail"?
They said you won't find those chick flick cliches in this movie... they didn't say it wasn't a chick flick.
Who care's if it IS a chick flick?
Big, strong alpha men, like you, care I guess. I'm sure you know what you're talking about though, Mr. Alpha Male. Keep the ball on your side... let your girl know you won't tolerate her asking you to watch those movies, you're THE alpha!
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.