Michele l'Arcangelo
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
He's Just Not That Into You - 10 Chick Flick Cliches You Won't Find In The Movie
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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That was hilarious. I think I might consider seeing the movie now.
Michele l'Arcangelo
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You must really take yourself seriously... because no one here does, all your posts are usually negative.piranha45 said:
And, who cares if they didn't deny it's a chick flick? How is that "fail"?
They said you won't find those chick flick cliches in this movie... they didn't say it wasn't a chick flick.
Who care's if it IS a chick flick?
Big, strong alpha men, like you, care I guess. I'm sure you know what you're talking about though, Mr. Alpha Male. Keep the ball on your side... let your girl know you won't tolerate her asking you to watch those movies, you're THE alpha!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.