"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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new dating site herway.com lets the women choose. I cant tell if im for or against this. On one hand, sosuave.com teaches us to be a don and have women chasing us, which this site does. On the other hand tho, again this puts women in the chooser role, although if they choose to go on a date with you, you can always just next them if they arent sh!t.

"HerWay's innovative approach to dating, similar to the Sadie Hawkins dance, ensures women control the action by restricting men from searching, while allowing women to browse for men anonymously."

"Guys - no more wasted time chasing. It's 5 times more likely you'll actually meet her when she makes the first move. Women know what they want and Profile Performance shows you what that is."

"Ladies - there are plenty of options to choose from. Men are excited to join HerWay and are waiting for you to connect with them! In fact, over half of the members who join HerWay are men."

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read some of the testimonials, thats really what erks me, the women enjoying the power.

opinions?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What's so different about this concept than any other dating sites?

They end up choosing who they want to go out with anyway and it gives them all of the power. The marketing is different, the concept is still the same.

"Come hither overweight women. YOU are special and get to pick which man you'd like to be rejected by eventually."
 
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ok thats probably true. I have never used a dating website, never will need to, so I dont know the quality of women on there. I guess any decently looking women would never need to use a dating website either.
 
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Yes, concept is basically the same.

Anyway, there's no way I'd sign up for something like that, to be exposed to every fattie or low quality woman who thinks she might have a chance with me...

...and not even be able to search in return.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Chromeo said:
Women know what they want
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I stopped reading there. I only wish it was earlier in the passage so i could have saved 20 seconds of my life
 
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