"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Chromeo

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new dating site herway.com lets the women choose. I cant tell if im for or against this. On one hand, sosuave.com teaches us to be a don and have women chasing us, which this site does. On the other hand tho, again this puts women in the chooser role, although if they choose to go on a date with you, you can always just next them if they arent sh!t.

"HerWay's innovative approach to dating, similar to the Sadie Hawkins dance, ensures women control the action by restricting men from searching, while allowing women to browse for men anonymously."

"Guys - no more wasted time chasing. It's 5 times more likely you'll actually meet her when she makes the first move. Women know what they want and Profile Performance shows you what that is."

"Ladies - there are plenty of options to choose from. Men are excited to join HerWay and are waiting for you to connect with them! In fact, over half of the members who join HerWay are men."

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read some of the testimonials, thats really what erks me, the women enjoying the power.

opinions?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Kailex

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What's so different about this concept than any other dating sites?

They end up choosing who they want to go out with anyway and it gives them all of the power. The marketing is different, the concept is still the same.

"Come hither overweight women. YOU are special and get to pick which man you'd like to be rejected by eventually."
 

Chromeo

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ok thats probably true. I have never used a dating website, never will need to, so I dont know the quality of women on there. I guess any decently looking women would never need to use a dating website either.
 

runner83

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Yes, concept is basically the same.

Anyway, there's no way I'd sign up for something like that, to be exposed to every fattie or low quality woman who thinks she might have a chance with me...

...and not even be able to search in return.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Chromeo said:
Women know what they want
I stopped reading there. I only wish it was earlier in the passage so i could have saved 20 seconds of my life
 
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