"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Herschel Walker documentary outlines more media subtly......

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In the ESPN 30 or 30 documentary, they go into great detail about how Walker was insulted and beat up as a kid. Watch the video from the documentary, and they show a school that was 100% white with Walker being the only black kid. This was in Wrightsville, GA.

Quick look at census.gov shows the % of white and black to be about half and half.

What message are they sending again here? My guess is that Walker was bullied more by his fellow blacks than whites. But that wouldn't play into the poor pitiful race card.

All I ask is that people are aware of this, and/or wake up to the reality of media brainwashing.
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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good lord there s no way in hell you actually get women lol
 

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Quick look at census.gov shows the % of white and black to be about half and half.

That was probably a county statistic. Even if it was by town, if Wrightsville is anything like Macon, where I lived, then all the white people live on one side of the town and all the black people the other side. My former wife taught at a high school that was 99% black. That was over ten years ago. I just looked them up again and it hasn't changed: African American (99.2%), Hispanic (0.4%), White (0.3%)
 

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Bible_Belt said:
Quick look at census.gov shows the % of white and black to be about half and half.

That was probably a county statistic. Even if it was by town, if Wrightsville is anything like Macon, where I lived, then all the white people live on one side of the town and all the black people the other side. My former wife taught at a high school that was 99% black. That was over ten years ago. I just looked them up again and it hasn't changed: African American (99.2%), Hispanic (0.4%), White (0.3%)
From wikipedia:
Demographics[edit]
As of the census[1] of 2000, there were 2,223 people, 867 households, and 564 families residing in the city. The population density was 648.1 people per square mile (250.2/km²). There were 978 housing units at an average density of 285.1 per square mile (110.1/km²). The racial makeup of the city was 45.88% White, 53.49% African American, 0.22% Asian, 0.04% from other races, and 0.36% from two or more races. Hispanic or Latino of any race were 0.67% of the population.


From census.gov:
White alone, percent, 2013 (a) 64.0%
Black or African American alone, percent, 2013 (a) 34.6%


From greatschools.org for Johnson County HS where he went:
White 51%
Black 47%

The media skewed the reality. It is what it is. Ask yourself what their motivation is.
 

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backbreaker said:
good lord there s no way in hell you actually get women lol
I dont think thats news to anyone here lol. And if you look at this guys posting history, all he does is create threads in the AE forum to whine about blacks, gays, or dem dere liburawls.

OP is better served to take his topics to other forums. Dude clearly has an agenda he cant let go. As soon as his other thread was locked, up pops this one.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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From greatschools.org for Johnson County HS where he went:
White 51%
Black 47%


You might be right, but we'd need the data from 1976-79 to be sure. Some districts have undergone massive re-zoning and busing plans.

When you say espn "showed" the hs as all white, you mean they surrounded him with white kids in the shots re-creating him as a hs kid?
 

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Bible_Belt said:
You might be right, but we'd need the data from 1976-79 to be sure. Some districts have undergone massive re-zoning and busing plans.
Maybe, but I doubt it, especially at a small county school like that. Those haven't seen much population shifts.

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When you say espn "showed" the hs as all white, you mean they surrounded him with white kids in the shots re-creating him as a hs kid?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IBkOHKat1UY

First 10 minutes of video.
 
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