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Hernia or groin pull?

MrLuvr

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What are the symptoms of hernia vs a groin pull or something?

After some dead lifts, I started getting pain in the groin area. It seems more part of the upper thigh. But, I am also getting pain at the base of the pubic bone. It has been a couple of weeks and while the pain goes away after a while, if I exert myself again it comes back.

I guess I should see a doctor. But, i am wondering whether I have developed a hernia.
 

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I think a hernia is when the intestin goes through the abdominal wall, but my english isn't the best, so I might have explained it wrong. Anyways, you probobly just pulled your groin. Do you have a lump in your abs that shouldnt be there? Also, dont use a belt when you lift. Alot of people get hernia cause of belt use.
 

joekerr31

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you should probably just google this.

but the above poster is correct. a hernia is when your part of your stomach pushes out furthr than the rest. looks kind of like a water pocket in the skin on your stomach.

so your issue is either a groin pull or you have the homogay gene and this is the beginning of your transformation - like a caterpilla that blossoms into an *ss f*cking butterfly.

anyway, if you find yourself suddenly attracted to men's *sses then its probably not a groin pull.
 
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