Okay, guys, so I took a break from sosuave for a while, so I could practice what I've learned, and I think I've done a good job. So, there is this one chick that i've had interest in all sumester long, but i never had the balls to ask her out. Anyways, 2 days ago, the last day of school for the sumester, I saw her walking with one of her friends in the hallway, I pulled her aside by the arm, and simply told her that, "You look great today." She then told me that, "Thanks, that's so sweet." And i went and asked her if she wanted to go to the movies over the break. She gave me her number, and I plan on calling her and setting something up soon. It's hard to believe it was that easy/
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Here's what I did.
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
jeffthechef
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damn man...i'm sorta in the same situation..i've been interested in this one girl for 2 years...but i never found ss/dj until this summer...and i came off so afc in my attempts to initate contact..that now i dont whether or not to try and get it started again now that i know how to do it the right way cause i might appear even more afc if i constantly try to talk to her...but i'm 98% sure she's interested i've just been contactin her when she was in a relationship..which i never knew about...****
hmm..i think i might try what you did..next time i see her...
i have some questions though
1. how did she react after you told her she looked great?
2. were you going to play off that reaction or were you going to ask her to hang from the beginning?
hmm..i think i might try what you did..next time i see her...
i have some questions though
1. how did she react after you told her she looked great?
2. were you going to play off that reaction or were you going to ask her to hang from the beginning?
Well, this is a girl i've joked with on several occasions, so when i complimented her she seemed shocked, and i took advantage of that. I was going to ask her out if she responded well, which she did. Just have confidence and smile when you say it. keep eye contact and use kino. You'll be just fine
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Fvck you need to BUMP this thread to show suckers how easy it is.