Okay, guys, so I took a break from sosuave for a while, so I could practice what I've learned, and I think I've done a good job. So, there is this one chick that i've had interest in all sumester long, but i never had the balls to ask her out. Anyways, 2 days ago, the last day of school for the sumester, I saw her walking with one of her friends in the hallway, I pulled her aside by the arm, and simply told her that, "You look great today." She then told me that, "Thanks, that's so sweet." And i went and asked her if she wanted to go to the movies over the break. She gave me her number, and I plan on calling her and setting something up soon. It's hard to believe it was that easy/
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Here's what I did.
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
jeffthechef
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damn man...i'm sorta in the same situation..i've been interested in this one girl for 2 years...but i never found ss/dj until this summer...and i came off so afc in my attempts to initate contact..that now i dont whether or not to try and get it started again now that i know how to do it the right way cause i might appear even more afc if i constantly try to talk to her...but i'm 98% sure she's interested i've just been contactin her when she was in a relationship..which i never knew about...****
hmm..i think i might try what you did..next time i see her...
i have some questions though
1. how did she react after you told her she looked great?
2. were you going to play off that reaction or were you going to ask her to hang from the beginning?
hmm..i think i might try what you did..next time i see her...
i have some questions though
1. how did she react after you told her she looked great?
2. were you going to play off that reaction or were you going to ask her to hang from the beginning?
Well, this is a girl i've joked with on several occasions, so when i complimented her she seemed shocked, and i took advantage of that. I was going to ask her out if she responded well, which she did. Just have confidence and smile when you say it. keep eye contact and use kino. You'll be just fine
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Fvck you need to BUMP this thread to show suckers how easy it is.