Okay, guys, so I took a break from sosuave for a while, so I could practice what I've learned, and I think I've done a good job. So, there is this one chick that i've had interest in all sumester long, but i never had the balls to ask her out. Anyways, 2 days ago, the last day of school for the sumester, I saw her walking with one of her friends in the hallway, I pulled her aside by the arm, and simply told her that, "You look great today." She then told me that, "Thanks, that's so sweet." And i went and asked her if she wanted to go to the movies over the break. She gave me her number, and I plan on calling her and setting something up soon. It's hard to believe it was that easy/
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Here's what I did.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
jeffthechef
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damn man...i'm sorta in the same situation..i've been interested in this one girl for 2 years...but i never found ss/dj until this summer...and i came off so afc in my attempts to initate contact..that now i dont whether or not to try and get it started again now that i know how to do it the right way cause i might appear even more afc if i constantly try to talk to her...but i'm 98% sure she's interested i've just been contactin her when she was in a relationship..which i never knew about...****
hmm..i think i might try what you did..next time i see her...
i have some questions though
1. how did she react after you told her she looked great?
2. were you going to play off that reaction or were you going to ask her to hang from the beginning?
hmm..i think i might try what you did..next time i see her...
i have some questions though
1. how did she react after you told her she looked great?
2. were you going to play off that reaction or were you going to ask her to hang from the beginning?
Well, this is a girl i've joked with on several occasions, so when i complimented her she seemed shocked, and i took advantage of that. I was going to ask her out if she responded well, which she did. Just have confidence and smile when you say it. keep eye contact and use kino. You'll be just fine
Daddy The Pimp
Master Don Juan
Fvck you need to BUMP this thread to show suckers how easy it is.