"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Heres one small piece of advice for those who's just coming into the game

JohnElDonJuan

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This one piece of advice is for all the people on the board that is new to the game especially those who think you have to do something extra "special" to make a girl's interest level rise should remember this at all times...

In The Game Of Seduction A Women's Interest Isnt Raised By What You Do Or Try To Do, Its Mainly Raised By What You Dont Do Or Try To Do
I know what some of you might be thinking and the answer is no. This post isnt an excuse to do nothing when an opportunity with a women presents itself.

Think about all the dj points this quote actually covers. When used in a practical sense this will make you become a mystery. It shows you will not kiss her a$$ or take crap from her. It will hide most of your Insecurities from her(what she dont know wont hurt you:p). It shows your independance and individuality to her. It display an I dont give a fock attitude. It shows you are willing to walk away from her. There are many more dj traits this quote covers but I cant think of any more at the time.

Mix this idea with good body language(kino), a good sense of humor(or playfulness), being able to keep your composure(never let them see you sweat) and standing up for yourself when necessary and you'll be a very happy man :D.

You may notice this post is brief and I could have made a large post that goes into great detail on every point but I believe people must think about things for themselves so they can get an understanding of things for themselves, from their own point of view and not mine.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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not a great piece of advice, especialy as it is hard to make anything out of it, i mean you raise a few valid points but the quote is no good really.

if you really wanted a simple line of advice for a newbie, it wuold have to be.

be confident, and dont let girls walk over you.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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