"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Heres one small piece of advice for those who's just coming into the game

JohnElDonJuan

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This one piece of advice is for all the people on the board that is new to the game especially those who think you have to do something extra "special" to make a girl's interest level rise should remember this at all times...

In The Game Of Seduction A Women's Interest Isnt Raised By What You Do Or Try To Do, Its Mainly Raised By What You Dont Do Or Try To Do
I know what some of you might be thinking and the answer is no. This post isnt an excuse to do nothing when an opportunity with a women presents itself.

Think about all the dj points this quote actually covers. When used in a practical sense this will make you become a mystery. It shows you will not kiss her a$$ or take crap from her. It will hide most of your Insecurities from her(what she dont know wont hurt you:p). It shows your independance and individuality to her. It display an I dont give a fock attitude. It shows you are willing to walk away from her. There are many more dj traits this quote covers but I cant think of any more at the time.

Mix this idea with good body language(kino), a good sense of humor(or playfulness), being able to keep your composure(never let them see you sweat) and standing up for yourself when necessary and you'll be a very happy man :D.

You may notice this post is brief and I could have made a large post that goes into great detail on every point but I believe people must think about things for themselves so they can get an understanding of things for themselves, from their own point of view and not mine.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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check_mate_kid_uk

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not a great piece of advice, especialy as it is hard to make anything out of it, i mean you raise a few valid points but the quote is no good really.

if you really wanted a simple line of advice for a newbie, it wuold have to be.

be confident, and dont let girls walk over you.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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