"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Heres one small piece of advice for those who's just coming into the game

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This one piece of advice is for all the people on the board that is new to the game especially those who think you have to do something extra "special" to make a girl's interest level rise should remember this at all times...

In The Game Of Seduction A Women's Interest Isnt Raised By What You Do Or Try To Do, Its Mainly Raised By What You Dont Do Or Try To Do
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I know what some of you might be thinking and the answer is no. This post isnt an excuse to do nothing when an opportunity with a women presents itself.

Think about all the dj points this quote actually covers. When used in a practical sense this will make you become a mystery. It shows you will not kiss her a$$ or take crap from her. It will hide most of your Insecurities from her(what she dont know wont hurt you:p). It shows your independance and individuality to her. It display an I dont give a fock attitude. It shows you are willing to walk away from her. There are many more dj traits this quote covers but I cant think of any more at the time.

Mix this idea with good body language(kino), a good sense of humor(or playfulness), being able to keep your composure(never let them see you sweat) and standing up for yourself when necessary and you'll be a very happy man :D.

You may notice this post is brief and I could have made a large post that goes into great detail on every point but I believe people must think about things for themselves so they can get an understanding of things for themselves, from their own point of view and not mine.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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not a great piece of advice, especialy as it is hard to make anything out of it, i mean you raise a few valid points but the quote is no good really.

if you really wanted a simple line of advice for a newbie, it wuold have to be.

be confident, and dont let girls walk over you.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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