"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Here's one: How to close a friend's roommate?

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I don't think anyone has posted about this before, but this has happened to me twice in the past month. I meet a HB, and it turns out I know her roommate and already have her home number (I know a lot of people).

It might sound stupid, but, what do you do in that situation? It would be ridiculous to ask for the number since I already have it. What do you recommend?

Should I just call and ask for the HB out of the blue? How do I make it clear that I want to date the HB?

Thank you in advance for your thoughts, SoSuave.

Izza
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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If you see the HB somewhere, talk to her and ask her if she wants to go out sometime. Try to set up the date right there and avoid conflict with her roommate.
 
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That seems to me solid advice, to set up the date immediately.

Pook and AD were against setting up dates on the spot, preferring to test the bitty by asking for her phone #, which makes dating intent clear anyway.

But I you're right. Any other ideas by any chance?

David
 
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the setting up on the spot works..

otherwise instead of saying whats ur number, just say "i've got your number cause i'm friends with *roommate* you mind if i give u a call?"

otherwise, call to speak to the roommate, and hope she answers.. have a little fluff talk and say, hey i'm pretty busy rightn now and i need to speak to *roommate* but lets catch up for a coffee on *xxx*day
 
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Yo, great advice all. Thank you!

Since I barely care about one of the HBs, I just emailed the friend and was like "well since I know both of you, when are you going to invite me over for dinner?" hehe, gotta entertain yourself in life.

David
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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