"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Here's One For The "Do Not Do" Section

VladPatton

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Here's two examples that illustrate two things.

One; stop texting like a complete tool to try and try and try to win your target girl over. If there is no attraction on her part you will fail no matter what you type and send her. Leave her the fųck alone if she doesn't dig you. Next her. Learn to sense that just as much as if she shows high levels of interest. With that, see specimen A:

http://i1278.photobucket.com/albums/y509/VladPatton/Chumpism/imagejpeg_3.jpg

Second; girls will laugh and share your stupid texts via various social media outlets and friends all in the name to get a good snicker out of your horrible texting game. Stop being persistent when you sense bad chemistry. Learn to read the signs. I submit specimen B:

http://i1278.photobucket.com/albums/y509/VladPatton/Chumpism/imagejpeg_2.jpg

It's not difficult, men. Just stop over-texting and use it sparingly and wisely. And for cryin out loud realize that all that ṣhit can be relayed for her personal laugh in a matter or minutes. These two examples were rampant on Twitter in a matter of hours for the world to see. Not to mention I'm sure it went to personal contacts as well.

I don't know details of what this chick did with this guy, but by looking at these pitiful texts, he is a bonafide AFC regardless.

Thought you gents may enjoy this. Your perspectives are welcomed.

Keep cool.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Plutoman

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I first thought that it was the guy with the short texts, and all I could think is - that guy is playing this super-chill, why is this a bad example? That girl can't stop chasing him!

Then it hit me.
 

spiegel549

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Plutoman said:
I first thought that it was the guy with the short texts, and all I could think is - that guy is playing this super-chill, why is this a bad example? That girl can't stop chasing him!

Then it hit me.

LOL I thought exactly the same thing at first.
 

VladPatton

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LOL The girl is the Green Texts!
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Masculinity

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Plutoman said:
I first thought that it was the guy with the short texts, and all I could think is - that guy is playing this super-chill, why is this a bad example? That girl can't stop chasing him!

Then it hit me.
Haha, been there, done that.
 
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