"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Here's One For The "Do Not Do" Section

VladPatton

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Here's two examples that illustrate two things.

One; stop texting like a complete tool to try and try and try to win your target girl over. If there is no attraction on her part you will fail no matter what you type and send her. Leave her the fųck alone if she doesn't dig you. Next her. Learn to sense that just as much as if she shows high levels of interest. With that, see specimen A:

http://i1278.photobucket.com/albums/y509/VladPatton/Chumpism/imagejpeg_3.jpg

Second; girls will laugh and share your stupid texts via various social media outlets and friends all in the name to get a good snicker out of your horrible texting game. Stop being persistent when you sense bad chemistry. Learn to read the signs. I submit specimen B:

http://i1278.photobucket.com/albums/y509/VladPatton/Chumpism/imagejpeg_2.jpg

It's not difficult, men. Just stop over-texting and use it sparingly and wisely. And for cryin out loud realize that all that ṣhit can be relayed for her personal laugh in a matter or minutes. These two examples were rampant on Twitter in a matter of hours for the world to see. Not to mention I'm sure it went to personal contacts as well.

I don't know details of what this chick did with this guy, but by looking at these pitiful texts, he is a bonafide AFC regardless.

Thought you gents may enjoy this. Your perspectives are welcomed.

Keep cool.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Plutoman

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I first thought that it was the guy with the short texts, and all I could think is - that guy is playing this super-chill, why is this a bad example? That girl can't stop chasing him!

Then it hit me.
 

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Plutoman said:
I first thought that it was the guy with the short texts, and all I could think is - that guy is playing this super-chill, why is this a bad example? That girl can't stop chasing him!

Then it hit me.

LOL I thought exactly the same thing at first.
 

VladPatton

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LOL The girl is the Green Texts!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Masculinity

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Plutoman said:
I first thought that it was the guy with the short texts, and all I could think is - that guy is playing this super-chill, why is this a bad example? That girl can't stop chasing him!

Then it hit me.
Haha, been there, done that.
 
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