"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Idkmyname

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Summary of the situation:

I met a girl, we hit it off nicely, a couple weeks later she tells me she is kind of seeing another guy (she apparently was since I knew her) and tells me she doesn't want me to feel like I'm on the sidelines.

So I start moving on, but somehow I see her Friday and Saturday night and she starts hanging all over me, I just keep ignoring her and talk to other girls at the parties. She even got extremely jealous of a girl I was flirting with, she didn't even try to hide it. So today I got a text saying:

"I'm really sorry about everything. I dont want you to hate me because I think im always gonna have a thing for you."

I replied with "Its really hard to believe that considering you just threw me to the side for another guy."

And her final comment was "Its not like that. I honestly dont know what happened."

I'm just not sure what I should say to her next. Any suggestions? Am I being too hard on her since she was kind of already seeing this guy and I stepped in? I'm lost.

This is why I avoid dating, but I think this girl is really cool.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You showed her that you didn't need to have her around to have fun or to get the most out of your life. You didn't try to keep her or present yourself as a better possibility than whoever the other guy was. You had the power to and were able to just walk away. Girls like that.

Whatever you do, don't switch to some sort of "oh, we should be together then" mode. Keep letting her chase you, but keep giving her just enough hope that you might come around or that you might be a little interested.
 
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