"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Snow Plowman

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Ok so it's been 6 days since I said I'd be leaving, I've been talking to a few guys on Aim lately and I just decided it's best that I stay positive and offer some value.

I've been doing a lot for the past 6 days before I ended up getting sick. (sucks)
Before I got sick I was going out everyday making sure I don't stay in the house.

Due to the help from the RSD guys and a few others I've been working on escalating and it's been going great, now I don't care I'm just kinoing hardcore. Went on a day2 to the mall and tried a new style. Looks great I'm thinking about changing my whole wardrobe.

I was suppose to go on a day2 with another girl but canceled on her, first I was going to invite her to paintballing, which she really wanted to do. I got sick so I didn't bother going, so I was going to day2 at her house.

The past 6 days have been so much fun, and I really want to help others because I want them to experience the same amount of fun. I've been helping out AFCkid, who is supposed to be going by this girl's house today and finally lose his virginity. Also this summer he said he is going to Hawaii with her and he isn't even telling his parents!!:D

All I want to say from here is that most of the people here don't know what their doing and won't experience the fun unless they practice this. Something that really motivated me was a before and after picture of this one particular PUA. It was such a drastic change and to see how he looked before and then seeing him after with girls on his arms and stuff. Very inspirational.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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rrrrr

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You're an inspiration to us all SnowPlowman.
 

greenlake

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hah, i know u can't resist this forum. nice to see u back. pm me ur username for aim. i want u to help me get laid. hahah.
 
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