"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Snow Plowman

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Ok so it's been 6 days since I said I'd be leaving, I've been talking to a few guys on Aim lately and I just decided it's best that I stay positive and offer some value.

I've been doing a lot for the past 6 days before I ended up getting sick. (sucks)
Before I got sick I was going out everyday making sure I don't stay in the house.

Due to the help from the RSD guys and a few others I've been working on escalating and it's been going great, now I don't care I'm just kinoing hardcore. Went on a day2 to the mall and tried a new style. Looks great I'm thinking about changing my whole wardrobe.

I was suppose to go on a day2 with another girl but canceled on her, first I was going to invite her to paintballing, which she really wanted to do. I got sick so I didn't bother going, so I was going to day2 at her house.

The past 6 days have been so much fun, and I really want to help others because I want them to experience the same amount of fun. I've been helping out AFCkid, who is supposed to be going by this girl's house today and finally lose his virginity. Also this summer he said he is going to Hawaii with her and he isn't even telling his parents!!:D

All I want to say from here is that most of the people here don't know what their doing and won't experience the fun unless they practice this. Something that really motivated me was a before and after picture of this one particular PUA. It was such a drastic change and to see how he looked before and then seeing him after with girls on his arms and stuff. Very inspirational.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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rrrrr

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You're an inspiration to us all SnowPlowman.
 

greenlake

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hah, i know u can't resist this forum. nice to see u back. pm me ur username for aim. i want u to help me get laid. hahah.
 
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