Here is why every guy in this site is better than the rest

[CalmCoolAndConfident]

We are all better than the rest of the guys out there for one simple reason. We are all on here to improve ourselves for ourselves and women we meet. If this doesnt help you realise that you are the "prize" than nothing will. Most guys go through life only getting better through trial and error and not getting it all right. We are here on this site to make us better and working with one of the most complicated things in life, women. So if they cant see that you are the prize, their lost not yours some more deserving woman will get you. I just thought it needed to be said.

 

[Fenderules]

yeah i have learned a lot. Even though my scoring hasnt improved much, thats from my personal problems. I at least realize what my problems are, and have come a long way from a fagile little teenager who shakes when he talks to girls to being a lot more confident and just following my natural instincts.


I think i would have been lost otherwise. I was beyond AFC. I was more of a stalker hahaha just because i didnt understand. I thought showering women with gifts and praise would workl. If it didnt, you would have to shower them more. Of course they'd freak out and try some plan for me to stop. When i found out what they'v done, i'd always feel terrible, not knowing what the hell i did. It was humiliating as well and very pathetic.

 

[Vypros]

No, you are no better than the rest. No one person is not better than the next. Put these thoughts out of your head man!

There is only two things:

Do or do not.
Success or failure.
Be or not be.

There is no "better".

 

[mrRuckus]

No, you are no better than the rest. No one person is not better than the next. Put these thoughts out of your head man!
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Philosophical mumbo jumbo

 

[Vypros]

Philosophical mumbo jumbo

I phrase it philosophically, but in my head I am thinking this:

"Wait, some dude on a message board is sitting her saying that's better than some dude on a DIFFERENT message board? No, he's no better than that guy until he gets OFF of said message board and does something."

 

[FurryFriend]

Philosophical mumbo jumbo

No kidding. Some people seem to have a desperate need to appear smart.

I admit to feeling a bit loser-ish coming onto this forum. But coming here is admitting your life is crap. And admitting you have a problem is the first step in improving it....kinda like at Alcoholics Anonymous.

 

[Vypros]

I admit to feeling a bit loser-ish coming onto this forum. But coming here is admitting your life is crap. And admitting you have a problem is the first step in improving it....kinda like at Alcoholics Anonymous.

So, you actually agree with me then.

 

[Jay Jay]

hmmm.

not every guy comes here to improve.

some dudes come here to troll.

some here come to vent there anger and frustration at women [or hors as they call them].

some dudes [like me] come here coz they get downtime at work, enjoy talking about these topics and wanna kill some time while maybe helping out the random kid.

some dudes come here and instead of learning good things they just learn bad things [ for example instead of learning to improve themselves they 'learn' that women are 'hors'].

some dudes come here with game that suits them, they read all this guru **** and **** up their natural game.

and a lot of dudes come here instead of taking action.

this last type i will say a few words about.

instead of calling they come here and ask 'should i call.'

instead of approaching they come here and read a million posts on approaching.

instead of asking questions with an open mind they ask a question with an answer already in their head and only listen to the person who says what they want to hear.

instead of listening to stories from guys who REALLY are successful with women they refuse to believe and intsead of realising some things are possible they call the person who really does know a kj.

instead of becoming a legend with the ladies they become a legend on the forum.

BUT

you are correct that the guys who do come here seeking to improve are a step a head pf everyone else.

JJ

 

[Jay Jay]

No, you are no better than the rest. No one person is not better than the next. Put these thoughts out of your head man!

There is only two things:

Do or do not.
Success or failure.
Be or not be.

There is no "better".

i hear yo bro.

don't bother wasting your energy with those that wanna bring ya down. they are on their trip, you are on yours.

JJ

 

[DonJoseCantosie]

Actually, those who have this knowledge typically will overall have an advantage over someone who's done trial and error only. But of course the ones with the most game are probably pimps, since they're always in a girl's head which is the highest level of game, you being their drug to them, them putting themselves in streets for her man.

 

[blackomen]

Only if you go out and actually use the stuff you read here..

 

[DJinTraining06]

Only if you go out and actually use the stuff you read here..

I have a girlfriend, so im not using this site to get women anymore. I just find it interesting and insightful sometimes. Where else can a bunch of dudes talk about their problems and stuff liek that. If we did this out there in the real world to our friends, theyd kick our a$$ and call us homos.