"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Was on Facebook this morning and came across this post from this kid on my town.

"Why am I always so lonely. Why can't I find a girl. All I see are boys with women and seriously the boys are just *******s. Even older "boys" like in their early to mid-20s. Then I see the same girl with another boy not even a month from the last one. Take some time into finding someone. Life is not about just having sex. Find someone you really care about and who cares just as deeply as you. Then u won't get your heart broken every month or so. I can offer so much more than the immature boys. Why can't some person give me a chance."

1) never do this, do the opposite of this
2) it sheds light on what we here already know
3) he needs to be saved, badly
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Please send this guy a pm with a link to this site, he really needs it. With what he's saying it won't be enough to just confirm some suspicions he has... we're gonna have to work him from the ground up.
 
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This kid is on his period, apparently.

How old is "she"?
 
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Kailex said:
This kid is on his period, apparently.

How old is "she"?
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LOL, come on man, someone's got to show him the red pill.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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That was what I was like when I was 16. *shudders*.

Also this White Knight stuff needs to die a grizzly death. I get sick and tired of men behaving like women need saving. Women in the day of equality are quite capable of taking care of their own stuff, I have my own stuff to deal with, end of story. This kid should focus on himself and not what some low quality girls are doing.
 
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JohnChops said:
23 I believe lololol.
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Really? I thought the guy was a 16 year old kid. Now he REALLY needs to be sent here.
 
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I bet he has at least 1 picture on Facebook with him wearing a fedora.
 
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JohnChops said:
Ahahah his ****ing default picture man!
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Are you kidding us or what? lol
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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No I wish I was, then I wouldn't have to believe this was posted to THE PUBLIC.
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What was the response to his status by his FB buddies?
 
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JohnChops said:
No I wish I was, then I wouldn't have to believe this was posted to THE PUBLIC.
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What are the responses he's getting both from guys and girls?
 
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I bet he gets 98 comments " you are so sweet"
 
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I am friends with a couple tards that post the sob stories about why girls only like @ssholes and whatnot as well. Makes me laugh with disgust and pitty.

One of my girls obsessed megabeta orbiters (25) who hasn't gotten laid in 7 years is the definition of a blue pill pedestalizing white-knighting faggot. He often refers to me as a "chauvinistic pig" to her when she ditches her group of friends to come bang me. Lol Faggot.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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