"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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JohnChops

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Was on Facebook this morning and came across this post from this kid on my town.

"Why am I always so lonely. Why can't I find a girl. All I see are boys with women and seriously the boys are just *******s. Even older "boys" like in their early to mid-20s. Then I see the same girl with another boy not even a month from the last one. Take some time into finding someone. Life is not about just having sex. Find someone you really care about and who cares just as deeply as you. Then u won't get your heart broken every month or so. I can offer so much more than the immature boys. Why can't some person give me a chance."

1) never do this, do the opposite of this
2) it sheds light on what we here already know
3) he needs to be saved, badly
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Please send this guy a pm with a link to this site, he really needs it. With what he's saying it won't be enough to just confirm some suspicions he has... we're gonna have to work him from the ground up.
 

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This kid is on his period, apparently.

How old is "she"?
 

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Kailex said:
This kid is on his period, apparently.

How old is "she"?
LOL, come on man, someone's got to show him the red pill.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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That was what I was like when I was 16. *shudders*.

Also this White Knight stuff needs to die a grizzly death. I get sick and tired of men behaving like women need saving. Women in the day of equality are quite capable of taking care of their own stuff, I have my own stuff to deal with, end of story. This kid should focus on himself and not what some low quality girls are doing.
 

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JohnChops said:
23 I believe lololol.
Really? I thought the guy was a 16 year old kid. Now he REALLY needs to be sent here.
 

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I bet he has at least 1 picture on Facebook with him wearing a fedora.
 

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JohnChops said:
Ahahah his ****ing default picture man!
Are you kidding us or what? lol
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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FortunateSon

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JohnChops said:
No I wish I was, then I wouldn't have to believe this was posted to THE PUBLIC.
What was the response to his status by his FB buddies?
 

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JohnChops said:
No I wish I was, then I wouldn't have to believe this was posted to THE PUBLIC.
What are the responses he's getting both from guys and girls?
 

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I bet he gets 98 comments " you are so sweet"
 

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I am friends with a couple tards that post the sob stories about why girls only like @ssholes and whatnot as well. Makes me laugh with disgust and pitty.

One of my girls obsessed megabeta orbiters (25) who hasn't gotten laid in 7 years is the definition of a blue pill pedestalizing white-knighting faggot. He often refers to me as a "chauvinistic pig" to her when she ditches her group of friends to come bang me. Lol Faggot.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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